Assalamualaikum
Like always it has been about half of decade this blog being neglected. Its not that I dont wanna write or update, its just that I'm so busy with my intern life. Plus, I've becoming lazier when I get back from work. You know with all the jam stuff on road which makes my day become more tired. Okay stop with the bluffering. Let the story begin...
As stated on the title above, this post is wrote rentetan dari my previous post. Beforehand, mr.driver had told his mom which is my bakal mak about us and I had a wish to tell my mom about 'OUR' matter. Alhamdulillah I'd been given an opportunity to talk to mak openly.
Introduction:
That morning, Nani, one of my neighbour come to my house nak ambil kek. On that time mak tengah design 'Merdeka' cake for this one pengantin. Nak dijadikan cerita, spontaneously Nani asked, "Syud, kau bila nak kawen?". Well that is one famous question at this age. Then I just replied, "Tanya la mak aku tu ha", hikss jawapan selamat. Then nak tau my mom cakap apa, she said "Hai dah ada ke calonnya? Baru je practical." I just smiled like kerang busuk tepi laut.
So that's how everything unexpectedly started.
Content:
Setting: In my Kancil on our way from Tg.Karang to Batu Gajah around 6pm. Then abruptly...
Mak : Dah ada ke calonnya? (suddenly mak asked me)
Me : Ada dah mak. (shakingly I answered her question)
Mak : Baru practical kat shah alam berapa bulan dah jumpa calon?
Me : Eh calon dah lama dah jumpa mak. Hehe
Mak : Siapa?
Me : Ala mak kenal. Mak dah pernah jumpa dah.
Mak : Eh dah pernah jumpa? Kawan sekolah ke?
Me : Bukan-bukan. Bukan kawan sekolah.
p/s: don't read my mom's with serious tone. It's just sempoi tone.
I was surprised. She thought I've relationship with one of my school friend. Well mak said she feels a little bit confused because I have many boy-friend back from my primary school. I don't realize that though.
I tried not to mention his name to mak at first because I wanted this conversation to become wider. I'd made a right decision. We then started to talk about merisik, tunang, nikah and then the majlis. I told mak my opinion about not getting engaged and you know what, mak agree with that. She said actually they (mak & ayah) just wanted a simple nikah and kenduri doa selamat. But since getting married is once in a lifetime, insyaAllah, if possible I want a moderate majlis. Well I can't argue more about that because I'm not working yet and my pocket is just full of air.
Me : Mak, nanti angah mak nak letak hantaran berapa? (I think this is the time to ask)
Mak : Orang kata hantaran sekarang ikut level belajar kan?
Me : Kalau macam tu, angah degree atas 10k la? (Just asking without any intent)
Mak : Ish tak boleh macam tu. Ikutlah mana yang mampu. Mak tak nak nanti lepas kahwin berhutang
pulak. Kang, anak mak jugak yang kena sekali.
Me : Betul ni mak tak kisah berapa?
Mak : Iye, berapa yang mampu la.
Mak is very concern about her daughter future. I'm so happy on that time.
We continuously talked about this stuff as my Kancil passed through the town. I asked mak about my sister's wedding last two years. I just thought that I need to ask her more about my sister's because she had experienced it once. So, there's maybe some imrovement she wanna do for the second one, insyaAllah. There are two things mak said that ayah doesn't agree with. They are:
1. Pelamin & All the tepung tawar stuffs
2. DJ rental which pot pet nonsense
I agree with the second one but for the first one I think I want it but without tepung tawar. Ala I just want the pelamin for photograph session only. Please ayah let me have just a SIMPLE pelamin. Oh yes, and the syarat-syarat to nikah are:
1. Graduate first, belajar kena habiskan dulu
2. Get to work, ada gaji baru boleh cerita
Say yes, say yes cause I need to know. (Rude by Magic)
Around 8 o'clock, we almost arrived opah's house. Then again mak asked...
Mak : Siapa calonnya?
Me : Ermm. (I still in doubt whether to tell her or not)
Maiyah : Ala mak abang S****I tu.
Maiyah interupted but I still feel thankful to her. Oh pasang telinga jugak budak ni kat belakang.
Mak : Oh yang tu. (She knows him. Mak knows him! Oh world, mak knew!)
Me : *can't hide my wideeeee smile*
Mak : Kira tu dah final dah la? Dah tak nampak lelaki lain dah?
Me : Takat ni tu jela yang nampak mak. Hehe
Mak : Apa lah agaknya kelebihan kat dia sampai tak nampak yang lain dah. (Mak jokingly teased)
Me : Entah lah mak. (I can't answer that question either)
p/s: don't read my mom's with serious tone. It's just sempoi tone.
So that's my first time having such discussion with mak. Maybe she can openly discuss this matter with me because it is her second time; and maybe because lots of her friend's son or daughter got married just at my age. I hope I can get more courage to discuss about this matter with ayah. But I think that's a long way to go.
Tough luck my friend, no still means no. (Rude by Magic)
InsyaAllah I still got one year of study while he will start his work about next month after 6 months of training. I hope everything that we plan, will run smoothly. But we can only plan, Allah is the greatest planner of all. Everything is in HIS hands. Pray for us guys.
Every each things happen for a reason.
If they are meant to be, don't feel afraid to fight or to loose.
Because what's yours will always be yours.
If it is not yours, it will never be.
30/08/2014
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